(Closed) Should I Have My Mom Call Her Mom?

posted 8 years ago in Family
  • poll: Should My Mom Call Her Mom?
    Yes : (21 votes)
    62 %
    No : (7 votes)
    21 %
    Other, I'll Explain : (6 votes)
    18 %
  • Post # 3
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    4001 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I’d say you should have her call her Mom.  If the Mom’s are on a friendly basis like that it can’t hurt!  I imagine there can’t be anything terrible going on without her parents getting in touch with you in some way, right?  That’s just so crappy of your friend to just be MIA.  I hope it works out.  I think you’ve done everything you can so have your Mom give it a shot.  Let us know how it turns out!

    Post # 4
    Member
    11327 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    If I were you, I would call her mom yourself. That is less middle-school than having your mom do it for you imo 🙂 

    Post # 6
    Member
    5670 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I’m with the previous post. I would call her mother and just explain the situation and that you are concerned about her daughter.

    Post # 7
    Member
    1982 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Nah, I think it’s worse if she calls.. i think you should call. 🙂

    Post # 8
    Member
    5670 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I don’t think it would be embarrasing. From what you’ve said it sounds like her actions are very unlike her and there may be something else going on.

    Post # 9
    Member
    1580 posts
    Bumble bee

    I agree with Corgi, I think you should call the BM’s mom yourself. That way you can get the scoop from her (if there is any) first hand.

    Post # 10
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    1638 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I would call yourself. You are obviously worried so make sure you say that’s why you are calling first and foremost. Then say BM dresses need to be ordered like yesterday and she really needs to contact you ASAP about this.

    I would also call the girl back again or if possible drive to her house and see what’s up. You’ve been getting the run around for her for months and you were just in her wedding and spent a lot of $$, she should be calling you back.

    Post # 11
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    4466 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I think it depends on the moms’ relationship.  Like I’m thinking of a friend I’ve had since elementary.  If I couldn’t get ahold of her, I’d TOTALLY ask my mom to call her mom because they are friends from way back as well.  In a situation like that, it would definitely be a little less awkward than me “tattling” to her mom about her not returning my calls ;o)

    Post # 12
    Member
    3098 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    I think one of you needs to do it, with a quickness!

    Post # 14
    Member
    4024 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    You should call her mom. You wouldn’t want to cause any kind of drama between your moms.

    Post # 16
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    2781 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I agree with the girls that think you should call the mom. Unless the mom’s are really good friends or something and therefore your mom can drop it into conversation. But really, it’s your wedding and you need to be the one chasing it up – as awful as that sounds 🙁 Let us know what happens!

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