Should i invite my co-worker that I don't really like?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Should I invite my co-worker to my wedding?
    Yes - take the gamble that she won't come anyway. It's not worth the drama if she isn't invited. : (5 votes)
    14 %
    No way - it's your wedding, and you should be surrounded by people you like : (30 votes)
    86 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    7195 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I suggest inviting as few people from work as possible. The fewer you invite, the more it stands out when you don’t invite someone. A good rule of thumb is: will you be close friends with them after you leave that workplace?

    Post # 4
    Member
    1243 posts
    Bumble bee

    If you are her supervisor, and you have invited every other person that you supervise, you really should invite her. Ideally, you would have invited none of your subordinates, but since you already have, you should include her.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1287 posts
    Bumble bee

    You should either, 1: invite all of them, 2: invite non of them.  

    Me, I keep work at work, home at home.  I’m not inviting co-workers to my wedding. I don’t hang out with any of them outside of work.  I keep my job professional.

    Post # 8
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    2581 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - UK

    @clairebbbear: Honestly, I just wouldn’t invite her. You’re not friends, and you’re not inviting the whole office, so what does it matter if she finds out a couple of other people are going?

    Post # 9
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    1287 posts
    Bumble bee

    @clairebbbear:  It’s not really polite to invite someone to a ceremony and not to the reception. I think it’s insulting.  

    Post # 10
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    165 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @paula1248:  +1.  The only person from work I am inviting is someone I actually hang out with outside of work, and probably the only person I’ll keep in touch with on a personal level if I ever leave.

    If I were you, I’d invite her since I invited other people already, but I wouldn’t be happy about it.

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