(Closed) Should I invite my FI child's mom to our wedding???

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Bjones107:  I would say yes except that she doesn’t seem to acknowledge you in the presence of others. Are there really bad feelings involved here?

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

My ex husband and his new wife are on good terms with us.  But I would not have invited them to our wedding and they did not invite us to theirs.  You don’t need “reminders” on the day of your marriage.  The child is 14- plenty old enough to attend by himself, and I assume he will have Fi’s family there as well.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I wouldn’t.  I don’t think your wedding is a good place to get to know her.  Your heart is in the right place, but I think maybe meeting for coffee or something would be a better idea…

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I don’t know if your wedding is an appropiate occassion to get to know the woman. That is entirely awkward. Ask her out to coffee or invite her to the kid’s birthday party instead.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I wouldn’t. Your wedding is YOUR big day; this is not the appropriate time for you to try and make friends with her. Enjoy your wedding, and work on the relationship with her later if you so choose.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

i wouldnt…im not inviting my ex husband, but i am contemplating on inviting some of his family that im close to. it would just be awkward, just because we have a kid together i dont want him at my wedding. how does your FI feel about inviting her?

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Honestly my opinion I wouldnt want the father of my kids to attend our wedding that being said we arent on any good terms at all. Plus its your day you decided who you want to attend.

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Bless your heart, but no, there are just things and events we do not share to the exes.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

No! You haven’t chosen to be friends with this women she is in your life because of circumstance. You are so nice to even contemplate asking her but IMO i think it would be wierd

Post # 13
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Hell no. That just seems crazy awkward.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wouldn’t based on what you said. If you guys were friends and spent time together, then it would be a nice gesture, but it doesn’t sound like that’s the case.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

My fiance has two baby’s mom’s and they WILL NOT be coming to our wedding! I’m afraid his mother is going to invite one of them as her date instead of her husband and to our shower. Lol. If I were you, I wouldn’t and I wouldn’t feel bad. You guys aren’t friends.

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