(Closed) Should I invite my former bridesmaid?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Would you still invite her?
    Yes : (5 votes)
    24 %
    No : (16 votes)
    76 %
  • Post # 3
    1458 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I wouldn’t invite here, there’s no need to add stress and drama. It seems like she’s done being friends, and if she has cooled down she should reach out to you. Inviting her could be a way to try to repair your friendship, but I’m not sure I’d want to be friends with someone who treated me that way. Good luck!

    Post # 4
    605 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2014 - Brazil Room

    You need to add to the poll “not in a million years” because that would be my answer.

    Post # 5
    301 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I voted yes….but hear me out. If this “friend” is one who you have known since first grade, then you have probably had a few fights in your day. Her behavior is obv. unacceptable and no one would think less of you for not inviting her! But, to be the bigger person, you should invite her and let her decide if she is going to rise to the occasion, and hopefully apologize. If you don’t invite her then your friendship has been truly extinguished, and although drama and bitterness may be risks with a person like her, you may want to risk it to avoid the regret you may have if she is not there for you on your big day!

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