(Closed) Should I invite my Grandfathers girlfriend?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2001

I would invite her.  If you didn’t, your Grandfather’s feelings may be hurt, and hers also.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would invite her.  It’s your grandfather; if you’re inviting him out of respect, you’d kind of undue that respect by not inviting her.

Post # 5
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Helper bee

yep, definitely agree with above. i think once they are living together it’s an automatic plus one unless you are doing something really really limited where there is a big space issue or something like that.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

It’s awkward when you don’t know dates but I think it’s necessary to invite her. 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would invite her b/c they are in a serious relationship. It’s kinda the same as any other plus 1’s. It would probably be a little different if they just started seeing each other, but since they are living together it’s pretty significant

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

If you can afford it, then do. She’ll probably really appreciate the gesture, as will your grandad.

>> Also, can your grandad have a word with my mum and teach her how to get out there and find someone please?!

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

Yes- even though you’re not close to him, as an honored guest (due to his family status), I really feel he should be granted a guest, ESP. since they live together.

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@rebwana:  yes, this exactly!

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