(Closed) Should I invite them?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1475 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wouldn’t invite the kids.

Post # 4
9142 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

Nothing wrong with only inviting the piano teacher.  Maybe tell your mom that it’s either tha piano teacher and her husband only or none of them.

Post # 5
1022 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@sarahla123:  I would not invite them

Post # 6
3574 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I would just invite the adults.

Post # 7
2622 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think your piano teacher would be shocked if her kids were invited, honestly. I think its perfectly OK to not invite them.



Post # 8
2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I wouldn’t invite the kids.

Post # 9
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I wouldn’t invite the kids, and they are both old enough to not need a sitter or anything like that.  It sounds like it could be a nice night out for your piano teacher. 

Post # 10
3053 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

No to the kids.

I keep reading all of these stories where moms or MILs just seem to invite away and it drives me nuts. If my mom did it once, she would be told that if she does it again, it’s coming out of her pocket. It’s ridiculous if they’re not paying for anything! /end rant

Post # 11
7777 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@sarahla123:  Kids never need to be invited. And in your piano teacher’s case, they’re old enough to be left home alone or for the parents to make arrangements to look after them. Definitely ok to only invite the piano teacher and her husband. Besides, I doubt the kids would be interested in attending.

The blind relative is kind of a special case, so inviting her daughter doesn’t mean you have to invite anyone else’s kids.

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