Post # 1
FI and I have decided to be in seperate locations the night before the wedding. I booked a hotel room and was hoping that some of my bridesmaids would want to spend the night with me the night before. Well, the way they are talking it seems liek they will all be at their own houses that night, most with their significant others.
I decided to stay at the hotel because our wedding location is about 30-45 minutes across town from my house. I feel dumb for saying this, but I don’t want to be alone in my hotel room the night before the wedding. FI thinks I should ask a couple of my bridesmaids to stay with me that night. What do you think? Should I just ask them or suck it up and stay in the hotel room by myself?
Post # 3
I would say you should absolutely ask! You never know, some of them might have been thinking the same thing but thought you wanted to be on your own.
Post # 4
Ask your bridesmaids!! Even if at least one stays with you then you wont be alone! Im sure at least one of them will stay with you!
Post # 5
I think you should ask. They’re your bridesmaids because you love them and they love you, so ask. It could be a lot of fun.
Post # 6
Most definitely ask. That is what I am planning on doing and I have already told them. If they don’t all want to stay…it’s fine, but I don’t want to be alone either.
Post # 7
Let them know it’s an option! It could be fun! I’m sure they are assuming they’re staying in their own places because, seriously, why would they pay for a hotel room when they have a free room? But if you’re already in a hotel room, you could see if any of them want to stay with you.
But, really, you could enjoy a nice relaxing evening by yourself in the hotel room. Bring a book, take a hot bubble bath, have a glass of wine downstairs in the hotel lobby and people watch…
Post # 8
Im sure they would leave the boyfriends to spend a night with the to-be bride! Especially the night before the wedding!!! 🙂
Post # 9
Absolutely! Everyone loves a girls’ night sleepover!
Post # 10
Can’t hurt to ask, the worst they could say is no. Besides, I think spending the evening by yourself relaxing and doing whatever you want, thinking about the day ahead sounds nice. Take a long bubble bath, stay in a comfy robe, read a book or indulge and rent your favorite movie, order a nice room dinner. Frankly, being by oneself enures that you will get restful nights sleep (who knows one of your bridesmaids may have a terrible snoring issue).
Post # 11
If you want it ask!!! simple as that.
I asked my sisters and my mom to stay with me…one was a little reluctant to do so as her significant other was in town but she ended up staying and had so much fun!
Post # 12
Definitely ask…even if they all don’t stay..one or two may. If none of them want to stay, maybe ask your sisters (if you have them) or close relatives to stay. You guys can stay up a reminisce about old times, or favorite memories.
Post # 13
Yeah ask them! Maybe you can play some games or watch a chick flick!
Post # 14
Ask them! Girls’ night in a hotel room before the wedding = awesome!
Post # 15
Yes, you should totally ask them! My gals are staying with me the night before and I’m really looking forward to spending that time with them.
Post # 16
Ask them! It sounds like fun!