- 6 years ago
I have both an engagement party and a close friends birthday celebration this Saturday night beginning and ending at the same time.
The engagement party invite was sent out well in advance of the birthday invite but because the birthday is of a close friend, I’ve decided that I will go to my friends celebration first for about an hour and spend the rest of the night at the engagement party. Is that rude? So then should I tell the couple in advance that I will be a bit late to the party or is an hour/hour and half not that bad to turn up?
Also, my SO is invited to both functions – would it be rude/weird for him to only go to the engagement party
1. because both he and I do not know anyone else apart from the host at the birthday and I’d rather he catch up with old friends for a longer period of time at the enagagement
2. to be there in the beginning of the engagement party on behalf of ‘both’ of us while I’m not there at the beginning?
I’m putting myself in circles
Am I being rude????????