Should I message the teachers wife

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

@outgoingcutie15:  I think if he’s not responding it’s not appropriate to email his wife. 

actually in your previous thread you say the teacher is an about 44 female.  Here you refer to the teacher as male.  Different teacher?  

Post # 4
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Helper bee

If he is not responding, then no he does not want to talk to you.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I would bet this couple is very uncomfortable with a young, former student sending multiple unanswered emails just to check in.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@outgoingcutie15:  If he’s not responding then he doesn’t want to talk to you. Stop emailing him and definitely do not email his wife. That’s taking it a bit far. Why are you so eager to talk to him? 

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m concerned that you sought her email at all. Is there a reason you need to talk to him?

Post # 9
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Bumble bee

@outgoingcutie15:  OK just curious as you had referenced that thread.  It remains inappropriate to contact his wife to try and get his email.   

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@outgoingcutie15:  If you e-mailed him and he doesn’t respond it’s probably because he doesn’t want to. You have ZERO right to e-mail his wife. Why would you need to see how he’s doing anyway?

Why would you seek out his wife? Getting a bit stalky in here.

 

 

 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

This thread is weird.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@outgoingcutie15: You really have no concept of boundaries, in my opinion. Between this and you contemplating sending nude pictures to a stranger for downloading things for you…I recommend you maybe taking a break from the internet. 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee

Is there someone in your everyday life who you can maybe work with to help you learn how to establish boundaries, especially on the Internet? Because I’m concerned that you are going to get yourself into some major trouble/damage the rate you’re going. Maybe your parents or a friend or maybe even some kind of health professional/counselor you can talk to about things before attempting them? Sending multiple emails to a former teacher (or his wife? Your post kinda confused me.) is never appropriate in any way. Hell, sending multiple emails to ANYONE is inappropriate – I’d be creeped out if someone sent me an email, I didn’t respond, and they followed up with many more.

You never know how other people are going to react, and stuff like this is material for you getting slapped with a restraining order or a visit from the police.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

No, definitely not appropriate.  

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