Post # 1
So my Future Mother-In-Law told me last night that she wished me and my fiance would move the wedding up a year (right now it’s March 2014). I would love to be able to ge married, but I’m afraid we won’t be able to afford it. I told her this, but the more I thought about it, the more it makes me want to move it up (he wouldn’t care either way). The biggest thing for me is that my grandmother’s health seems to be going down hill…luckily it’s slowly, but I want and need her at my wedding. I really don’t know what to do right now. Sorry, I’m not sure if I’m exactly looking for advice, but just someone to kind of vent to.
Post # 3
@ihavethemusicinme: Feel free to vent to me, I have been where you are! Our wedding was originally going to be in Nov 2013 but it got moved up because we just couldn’t stand ourselves. We got tired of all the “why the heck are you waiting so long?” questions and it wasn’t a financial decision so we moved it up. To tell you the truth somedays I think it was a fantastic decision, but other days I feel like we completely rushed.
Post # 4
Thanks. I have a friend of mine who planned theirs in like 3 months and he thinks that I can do it cheaply. Another problem is that I’m hoping and praying that I’m able to graduate (college) in December. Then by the time I would be getting married if I moved it up I would have to worry about student loans…I have tons of them. Also, if I get married, I won’t be able to get my pell grants if I don’t graduate this school year because my fiance brings home a decent paycheck. I’m meeting with a professor on Tuesday about me graduating in December and I guess I’ll decide then. But I’m just really confused at what I want to do right now. 🙁