Should I or should I not… (tmi)

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Would you take plan B in this situation?
    No : (125 votes)
    63 %
    yes : (71 votes)
    36 %
    other please explain : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I wouldn’t

    Post # 4
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    Honey bee

    @anonabee02:  Hmm..have you ever taken plan b before? Only ask because some people have quite differing reactions to it. I took it once when I was paranoid and I threw up/was sick for almost three days.

    Given your situation, I probably wouldn’t take it. But if you are going to be paranoid about it, you could go buy it (I believe they carry it at Walmart now, so it is easily accesible).

    What is your normal method of birth control? Pull out method? Do you usually use condoms? If you are this paranoid, then you should probably have a planned method of birth control and not worry about using plan b. 

    ETA: Plan b in my area runs about $50, which is fairly pricey for 1 time use. So I only recommend a planned method because it can be way more affordable and give you peice of mind.

    Post # 5
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I accidentally voted yes, but meant to vote no.

    Post # 6
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @bmo88:  +1

    People (well, women) paranoid about pregnancy usually use not one but two forms of BC, I would assume.

    Post # 7
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Yes I would and I have. Better to be safe than sorry!!

    Post # 10
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2015 - Ketchum, ID

    @anonabee02:  Did he only enter you once or twice for a few seconds? Because in that case, I wouldn’t. However, if you had sex without a condom and he just pulled out before he ejaculated, then yes I’d take one. 

    Post # 11
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2015 - Ketchum, ID

    @MrsNewDay:  I’m pretty paranoid about pregnancy (not as much as I used to be), but I don’t use BC. We only use condoms if we have intercourse, which we don’t do super often. 

    Post # 14
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @mrspinesol:  Same here, b/c I don’t handle hormonal BC well. Just that many people I know who are paranoid about pregnancy use two forms, so I assume that’s the case for most people.

    Post # 15
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    If taking it would relieve anxiety, yes, absolutely.

    Post # 16
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @anonabee02:  I said no because I have actually been in the same situation as you back in college. I was not on birth control yet so I was super paranoid about getting pregnant because having a baby was the last thing on my mind. So I took it…. I mean everyone is different, but my hormones were out of control for the next three months not to mention I got terrible acne which didn’t go away for another 5 or so months. It was just a miserable experience for me and I can’t believe I put my body through it beause there was a very very very slight chance I could be pregnant. If you are that worried, you can obviously take it and feel safe, but if you think there is only the slightest chance-I wouldn’t. But that is just my opinion.

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