- 8 years ago
- Wedding: December 2010
So I have 4 bridesmaids: 2 friends, my future sister in-law, and my own sister. My other sister is not going to be in the wedding:( Anyways, originally I was planning on asking my one friend to be my Maid/Matron of Honor. (We aren’t best friends, but have always been good friends.) She has always been there for me through thick and thin, and she changed my life in highschool, when she invited me to hangout with her… Also, in college she was the one there for me when I went through a really hard time. We aren’t able to see eachother often due to the busyness of her life and the distance, but that proves the strength of our friendships. She is a great friend to many. She had 8 BMs in her own wedding, but I was not one of them. However, of course she wanted to be my Bridesmaid! In fact, she was volunteering herself to come dress shopping with me before I even asked her, and she’s the one who gave me advice even when my Future Mother-In-Law was meddling a lot after I got engaged!
Anyways, I had originally planned on asking her to be Maid/Matron of Honor. But then I felt shy about asking her. Then, I was thinking I shouldn’t ask anyone to be the Maid/Matron of Honor. However, out of all my BMs, she’s the one who’s really been there for me, even dress browsing with me and reassuring me, etc…. I’m so shy I didn’t even want a bridal shower. But she insists on throwing me one. She also wants to plan a bachelorette for me. She is the only Bridesmaid or Best Man that really can do this due to various circumstances.
Anyways, she sure is acting like she is Maid/Matron of Honor. I’ve always thought her worthy of being mine of course. Should I go ahead and ask her? I already had a card for her that I wrote, I just never asked her! 🙁 I was waiting on it to see who I got as my BMs first….. Or should I stick with the no bridesmaids thing?