- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
Hi I really need some advice,
I am getting married in 4 months but am thinking I should maybe postpone the wedding, however I do feel awful for thinking this.
My fiancee & I have been together for 10 years, although have been long distance for 7 of those years & have never lived together. At the moment, the future of my job is uncertain as in where I will be working in 7 months time (staying here or moving if the opportunity arises). My fiancee says they haven’t been able to find a job where I am but I am unsure i’ll find 1 if I move where they are. I am so busy at my job just now I can’t find time to plan anything. My job & the wedding planning (or lack of) are making me stressed & giving me insomnia. Also, my fiancee hasn’t come to visit me in 7 months although I have visited them every 2-4 wks in that time. If I am unable to move when we are married due to my job is there any point of continuing with the wedding, especially if they have not made an effort to come and see me recently? I am so confused as I feel angry for having to compromise alot (job/friends) while they don’t seem like they are making any compromise. However we have been together a long time & I don’t want the panic/pressure of everything to make me make a rash decision about postponing the wedding which I may regret later.