(Closed) Should I say something?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Should I say something or stay quiet?
    Say Something : (22 votes)
    35 %
    Stay Quiet : (41 votes)
    65 %
  • Post # 3
    3303 posts
    Sugar bee

    April 1st has come and gone. I would say something.

    Post # 4
    5786 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I wouldn’t say anything, its been all of 4 days.

    Post # 6
    2607 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    If you know that he has the ring, don’t say a WORD!  He’s clealy gonna do it at some point, and he probably has a date in mind to make it really special.  Just enjoy this waiting time, like an extended Christmas morning! (insert any other religious holiday that includes presents here).

    Post # 7
    1562 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Well, he has the ring so I would let it go a little while longer.  

    Post # 8
    2849 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I might wait a few more days, but then I would say something casually like, “Oh wow, is it the middle of April already?”

    Post # 9
    51 posts
    Worker bee

    I would stay quiet for now, if you know he has the ring then it could be anytime!

    Post # 11
    1086 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I’d say wait out the weekend, maybe he has something planned this weekend? And if by the time the next waiting list comes out, if you’re still on it, say something 🙂

    Post # 12
    955 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    I would only stay quiet this weekend. Maybe he has something special planned? If nothing, then I would say something. You had an agreement and he didn’t honor it!

    Post # 13
    6512 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @MissNoodles:  Agreed! 

    He might be waiting to make the surprise all the more surprising, or he might have a plan he needs to complete.  Try not to worry about it, and if you find yourself doing so, just remind yourself that he bought you a ring!  🙂

    Post # 14
    2067 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Stay quiet! I’ve read too many stories on here about women who confront their men (sometimes with a big blow up)… Just to realize that the SO was planning to propose in the next couple weeks-month… It’s not worth the blow up to ruin the surprise or hurt him etc…

    Wait it out 🙂

    Post # 15
    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Wait until the end of this month…. then bring it up.

    Post # 16
    5977 posts
    Bee Keeper

    @happyface:  I agree!

    I voted to say something, but I would give it a month before you do. Give him a chance. If he hasn’t done anything by May 1st, then just mention something to him.

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