Should I stay, or should i go? Help!

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Should I move with my boyfriend?
    Move with him. : (2 votes)
    14 %
    Stay with him until the move and then dont move with him. : (0 votes)
    Dont break up with him, but tell him you wont move. : (7 votes)
    50 %
    Break up with him now. : (5 votes)
    36 %
  • Post # 2
    12875 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    To me, the BF is irrelvant, especialy if it doesnt seem like that big a deal if you do breka up.  Do what’s best for you.  If you dont like where you are and there’s nothing there for you, then go ahead and move with him and figure out what you want to do if you want to be with him. If there’s any reason to stay and you don’t want to move, then don’t.

    Post # 3
    6439 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Do you both see yourselves together long term? If not, I would be hesitant to follow him, especially if you yourself don’t have a job or other support system there. If something were to happen to your relationship after moving with him, you might be up a creek.

    Post # 4
    381 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    The fact that you don’t care if you break up is your answer. Stay and let him move.

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