- 3 years ago
- Wedding: December 1969
Iv lived with my boyfriend for a year now, we have an appartment we rent with another couple, and our lease doesnt end until May 2015. Boyfriend is switching majors, so has to transfer to his old college by his home town. He wants me to move with him, iv droppe out of college. I love him like crazy but its my first serious relationship. i love travel and moving but hes would be getting a whole support group and i would still just be alone (instead of us moving somewhere new to the both of us and both of us starting anew). Im really not crazy about our state and iv been wanting to move, but we would just be moving deeper into it to the state capitol, not to mention im not to crazy about cities, unless they are like chicago or new york. Our relationship prioroities have been very him oriented, rightly so since hes the only one going to school at the moment, but i do want to start figuring out what i want to do, and if we move i will have to put that on hold until we actually do move. I dont know what to do. i could move with him, which would at least be an ecperience, but if it goes bad, it could go really really bad. Or i could just not tell him im not going with him until closer to the lease end. I dont want to tell him i wont go now because i dont want to break up knowing we have to live together becuase we are both on the lease. And i just really dont want to break up, but it wouldnt be the end of the world if we did. All in all, just need some input and comments, get a fresh view on it all.