should I suprise FH or tell him…

posted 4 years ago in Music
  • poll: Should I suprise FH or should I run it by him first?
    Suprise : (25 votes)
    69 %
    Tell him : (11 votes)
    31 %
    It's a dumb idea, you shouldn't do it : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2278 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I’d say tell him – and I love the idea 🙂

    Post # 4
    Member
    850 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Lovely idea. Does he like suprises? If he loves them then yes. If your the kind of couple that like to get excited about stuff together in anticipation rather than the suprise then share.

    Post # 5
    Member
    3041 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I’m a huge fan of surprises, so I would definitely go down that road. Unless I wasn’t able to contain my excitement that is… 🙂

    Post # 7
    Member
    2058 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Surprise! It will be an extra WOW factor to seeing you walk down the isle! 

     

    Post # 9
    Member
    2 posts
    Wannabee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    Well, in the excitement of the day and the joy of seeing you walking towards him, he might not catch it. I am normally all for surprises, but I could totally see it being lost on him. 

    I think it is a fantastic idea. It is personal for you two, the string version makes it more wedding-appropriate. Any wedding guests that could possibly be offended by the use of the song, wouldn’t have to know. 

    So, I vote to tell him. 

    Post # 10
    Hostess
    3377 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @MsGinkgo:  I would surprise him! Aside from the initial amazement of you walking down the aisle, this will REALLY add to it! 

    Post # 12
    Hostess
    3377 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @MsGinkgo:  Meant to put it in music, my bad 😉

    Post # 14
    Member
    7703 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

    he’s already going to be nervous enough.  i would tell him.  but when you tell him ahead of time, you can make it a surprise then too.

    Post # 16
    Member
    8382 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Or you can tell him that you have picked out a song that you think he’ll like.  That way,he’ll be paying attention to both it and you. 

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