Should I tell her something or brush it off…..

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
546 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I am sorry to hear about your unpleasant experience with your friend..I would probably tell her that she hurt your feelings and it was wrong to bring it up infront of other girls..Because there are too options…she either brought it up because she thought it wasn’t a big deal (and by telling her that she did smth wrong you will prevent her from saying something again in the future)…Or, second option, she did it on purpose..because she is jelouse for example…then you need to discuss this with her, because you don’t need untrue, jelouse friends around you at this happy time of your life..

Post # 4
3394 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@SamanthaLovesJames:  I would tell her. Maybe not in an accusatory way. Just like, hey, I’d rather not be reminded of that and it was kind of embarassing.

Post # 5
885 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Does she usually stick her foot in her mouth? 

I am notorious for doing that…..Not proud of it, but I am working on it. Maybe she just said it without any malicious intent and did it because she didn’t have any tact in that moment in time? Could this be a possibility do you think? 

You could always bring it up casually, and get her side of it. 

In the end though remember – what he did is in the past, and she said is too in the past. 

Post # 7
885 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@SamanthaLovesJames:  Yeah, then a casual conversation with her would be best. See what possesed her to say that then because if that is unusual behavoir then something might be up. 

Post # 8
254 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I would bring it up, privately and find out why she opened her trap about it and ask her never to bring it up again.

Post # 9
7207 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

100% bring that up. It was rude and unnecessary.

Post # 10
920 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

I would just simply talk to her and try to understand.  Maybe she just wasn’t thinking and felt bad.

Post # 11
370 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

How inappropriate! Ouch.

I’d definitely tell her how much she upset you.

Congratulations on your pregnancy!

Post # 12
1465 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I would talk to her.


I’m just trying to figure out what’s with the stock photo of a lady party…

Post # 13
6678 posts
Bee Keeper

That is really awful.  I would say something to her about how that made you feel.

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