(Closed) Should my in laws be in my wedding?

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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4194 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

Before you two get married, I’d advise family counseling for ALL of you. How does FI feel about all of this? This just doesn’t sound healthy for you- “FI’s father has kicked me out of their family his mother and sister have blamed me for everything that has ever gone wrong.”

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

First, I’m sorry to hear about your father’s death and the SIL’s horrible comments. Comments like those are never ok. I also think it’s great that you want to have a relationship with your FI’s family. That being said, I don’t think you should have the first attempt of reconciliation be at your wedding. What if things don’t go as planned, and it negatively impacts your wedding day? Try to make amends with them before the wedding. If it goes great, you can always adjust the wedding to include them. Best of luck!

Post # 7
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91 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

If they kicked you out of the family, why are they still in the wedding?..but that’s if they will show up and do their part. What does your fiance say about this? When you two get married it will be YOU that comes first and his family second. He needs to set the tone now and get his family in order. He must consult you first..and if something happens and he goes to you about it before his family, there will be a problem. Fiance needs to step up now if he hasn’t. It looks as though they don’t respect you and are filled with drama. You are going to be his wife and they need to respect you. Good luck with everything!

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