- 8 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
ok so very recently my FI had his cousin/my best friends boyfriend come stay with us for a while. after the first month of him being here my FI was ready to send him home due to him not having a job and us not wanting to keep paying for everything of his since we have our own stuff to worry about. i convinced him to let him stay for at least another week so they could be together for my friends birthday. he let him stay, that was the end of april. in may i had a talk with her about trying to get him to be more serious about finding a job if he wants to stay because neither of us talking to him did anything. she got very very mad at me but after a weekend said everything was ok, i apologized for putting her in the middle the way i did everything was fine. june rolls around and she told him that i said he was worthless! and then he decided to make stuff up about me and tell her that everything my boyfriend said rude about her was really me saying it and just making him tell her bf! wth right? so now she hates me and like wants me to die and he is back at home. he also broke my FI guitar strings stole his ipod and the money he was supposed to get from selling it.
My question is since it is family and these two cousins were once very close, should we invite him? since his date will be my friend do you think that would cause to many problems? i am really lost on this one Please help!