(Closed) Shower Invites: greedy or polite?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I struggled with this too because I didn’t want people to feel left out but theN also thinking I amfishing for gifts. I decided to invite my friends from oot and my moh is going to shoot them a separate note to let them know that I wanted to include them but do not want gifts. 

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think it is okay to invite peoplel you know cannot attend. I would love to be invited to something even if I knew I could not attend. I do not see it as gift-grabby, people are not obligated to get a gift.

Post # 5
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236 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think it’s nice to let people know they are welcome. Who knows — maybe they will surprise you and attend both. You can’t go wrong including people, but you can hurt feelings by excluding people. That’s my take, anyway. 

Post # 6
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774 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Send them one anyways! Who knows if theywill be able to come or not

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