- 10 years ago
- Wedding: August 2008
In the couse of my engagement a few people have extended the desire to throw me a shower. I am overjoyed because I’m always the party thower, the Martha if you will of the family.
Now that we’ve been registering, I’m wondering A: When do you normally have showers and B: how do I find out if those people really want to throw a shower with out it looking like I am asking them too.
To help you in your answer, all 3 of these people have said things like "Well you just let me know when you want one…" or "If you want a big one or a few small ones we’ll work around it" a few small like each family alone.
I don’t want to look rude, but I really do what a shower and would prefer nto to throw my own ebcause that doens’t seem right either.
BM’s so not in the financial situation to do it either…..