(Closed) Shower RSVP…would this bug you?

posted 5 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Is it past the RSVP dead line? I wouldn’t mind getting a message on FB.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I wouldn’t care if I got a message on Facebook about the shower.  I don’t see anything wrong with it.  Good luck!

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

No – my sister/MOH contacted people via Facebook who hadn’t RSVP’d for mine. Truthfully, many of them were thankful for the reminder as they had forgotten!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Hell I facebooked people to follow up on the wedding RSVP’s, I think you’re fine. 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Not tacky. If you’re not close with these girls, I think it’s fine to send a short message.. I wouldn’t be upset if someone did this to me.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

No I think its fine

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

As long as it’s a private message and not written on their “wall,” I think that’s fine! I would probably call them though, since some people don’t see or respond to facebook messages immediately.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think that’s totally fine! 🙂

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think it’s fine. Sometimes people just need a little reminder 🙂 Try not to stress about this shower too much! The bride should just be happy she has such a great friend that would do what you’ve done

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

I think it’s fine.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

Totally fine to message them privately and say exactly that. Some ppl forget, or push off rsvp-ing until they are sure they can make it which ends up being last minute. 

I say go for it! 🙂

Post # 14
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Go for it if they haven’t RSVP’d yet and its past deadline. Although, typically I take a lack of an RSVP as a no.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Agreed–I think a private message is totally fine (just don’t post on their wall). When it came closer to my shower deadline my sister contacted my friends via facebook to conifrm their RSVP. Some people just forget!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would not post it on their wall either. In fact, I would probably send a private email or phone call vs FB.

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