(Closed) Shower thank you notes

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
636 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I mostly signed the cards just from me.  If the people knew my husband better than me, or they soecifically wrote the card out to he and I (most just wrote the card to me), I signed it both of our names.  Hope this helps!

Post # 4
596 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009 - Ceremony: The Kraine Theatre, Reception: Midtown Loft & Terrace

I say use it for whatever you want to and if that’s for a downpayment, so be it!

Also, I signed all of my notes from just me. 

Post # 5
3332 posts
Sugar bee

At my shower, I signed the thank-you notes myself.  My Mother-In-Law threw me a shower and for those presents, we both signed them.  Most of the cards we received at that shower were addressed to both of us, so I thought that seemed better.  Also, I think it’s okay to use the money however you want/need and they will appreciate it either way.  Even if they did intend for you to buy yourself a little goody, they won’t be offended by you wanting to save it for your house deposit or whatever. 

Post # 6
495 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Same here-for the shower I signed just from me except for one my family through that my Fiance attended as well so he signed those.

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