- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
This is my 2nd wedding/ FI’s 1st. While we were hanging out a little while ago 2 of my BM’s brought up having a shower and what I wanted to do. But I was really upset over some drama with my FFIL that had happened an hour or two before, so we never really discussed it.
Here is what is in my head, if you can muddle thru it, I would love some opinions.
a: we live in MA, our wedding is in SC
b: I personally don’t have many friends/family that I have invited to the wedding. So, I really don’t know who would come.
c: Most people invited are FI’s family/friends. I don’t know if FMIL would come up from SC because of her job, and I don’t know if they would come if she isn’t coming.
d: other people are from all over, I don’t know if they would really travel.
e: I don’t want them to put in a lot of work/money and have no one show up.
We all live in tiny apartments so none of us would be able to do it in our house. I really don’t want to inconvenience them. I really don’t know what to do….