(Closed) shower/bachelorette party weekend!

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
1566 posts
Bumble bee

Are the shower guests traveling to your area for the whole weekend? If so, it would be nice to invite them. If not, I don’t see why you’d have to. 

Post # 4
18645 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think that the bachelorette party is more for close friends.  The only real etiquette about showers is that all people who are invited to a shower should be invited to the wedding.

Post # 5
950 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Sounds like they are hosted by two different groups (bach – BMs; shower – aunt), so I don’t see why the guest lists have to be the same. Go have fun with your closest buds on Fri night!

But if you’re not inviting everyone in your age range to the Bach party, do your best to not mention the party at the shower.  Not to keep it a secret, but rather as good manners – y’know, talking about something that others present aren’t/weren’t invited to.

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