Post # 1
I am very curious about this – showering together seems like it would be so nice and intimate and romantic and steamy ….
But since I’ve been with my fiance, I’ve found that I don’t like it. At all.
First of all, when I’m in the shower, I’ve got stuff to do – washing my hair, face, body, shaving my legs, etc. That takes up enough time on its own!
And the shower is MY time – sometimes the only part of the day when I’m alone. I enjoy it! lol
And my fiance is a big guy – and most showers are pretty small. It’s just not logical for us to be in there together. If we are in there together, one of us is not under the water and we just kinda stand there freezing.
And there’s something about trying to kiss/feel each other up while water is pouring down over us that just doesn’t do it for me, surprisingly.
What are you thoughts/opinions?
Post # 3
@Stace126: I’m not a two-hour shower kind of girl. I do what needs to be done, and get out. I can’t imagine romanticizing that. It’s a no.
Post # 4
- Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House
we do it a lot, actually. A lot of the time it’s just nice for connecting and relaxing together, even if it doesn’t lead to anything. He’ll help me wash my hair, and we’ll just talk. We’re good at taking turns and we’re both slim, though. I can see how it would be more difficult if there are space constraints.
Post # 5
When I know I just need to wash my body and/or wash my hair only, then FI can take a quick shower with me. It’s kinda nice because while I’m rinsing, he’s scrubing his body or vis versa. And we can scrub each others back. Lol. But when I’m ready to get out, I have to squeeze by him so I don’t get any soap on me. If I do, I have to go rinse again. Haha. But I’m with you when I need to do it all, shave, wash my hair, body, face …. I can’t have him in there. Lol
Post # 6
If we shower together, it’s mostly as a form of foreplay. If it’s just something romantic that’s not leading to sex, then it’s just a quick wash and not my normal shower routine with the bonus of someone to wash my back.
Shower size is an issue, so it’s not something we do a lot, but I always enjoy it.
Post # 7
we’ve been doing it a little more often than normal, I don’t know why. It doesn’t take much longer than our normal showers hahaha!! I like it. He also can’t wash his back very well so I do it for him with my loofah XD
Post # 8
We tried it a few times in my first place, but we had a much larger shower than we do now. Neither of us really got much out of it. We were tripping over each other and we were both annoyed by the time it was over.
Shower time is my time to relax, and shave my legs, and it’s hard enough to shave my legs with just me in the shower, much less FH.
I did have a really great garden tub in my last place and FH and I would sometimes hang out in there.
Post # 9
FI and I shower together sometimes. If we are getting ready to go somewhere (work, to a meeting, etc.) we won’t shower together, but if we’re just getting ready for bed we will. I can understand though if there are space constraints like a PP said.
Post # 10
We shower together once in a while, but usually alone is better. I like a quick shower, and he likes a long shower, so if we DO shower together, I’m usually out first.
Post # 11
@Stace126: It’s ok sometimes, but I find one of us is either too cold or too hot. I love hot showers, SO doesn’t. When one of us is under the shower rinsing, the other one is freezing etc. lol. It just doesn’t work as a practical everyday kinda thing.
Post # 12
@Stace126: I don’t like it. I’ve tried it and I’m not into it.
Post # 14
it sometimes saves water. however, our apartment has a tiny stall shower, so we can’t shower together. and after we move home, we’ll be sharing a bathroom with other people. so yeah.
we do like it, though (:
Post # 15
i love it, but sadly he doesn’t!
Post # 16
Almost every time I shower.. it’s with DH. I need my back scrubber!!!!!! We don’t really use it as sexy time or foreplay though. He gets too relaxed.. lol. But I love showering with him even though it is just showering. Love it 🙂
ETA: It’s definitely a time we just connect and be together. Did I already say how much I love it!?