showering together – yay or nay?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you like showering with your SO?
    NO : (78 votes)
    14 %
    YES : (213 votes)
    37 %
    SOMETIMES : (278 votes)
    48 %
    OTHER (explain) : (7 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    205 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    @Stace126: I’m not a two-hour shower kind of girl. I do what needs to be done, and get out. I can’t imagine romanticizing that. It’s a no.

    Post # 4
    6194 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    we do it a lot, actually. A lot of the time it’s just nice for connecting and relaxing together, even if it doesn’t lead to anything. He’ll help me wash my hair, and we’ll just talk. We’re good at taking turns and we’re both slim, though. I can see how it would be more difficult if there are space constraints.

    Post # 5
    1199 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    When I know I just need to wash my body and/or wash my hair only, then FI can take a quick shower with me. It’s kinda nice because while I’m rinsing, he’s scrubing his body or vis versa. And we can scrub each others back. Lol. But when I’m ready to get out, I have to squeeze by him so I don’t get any soap on me. If I do, I have to go rinse again. Haha. But I’m with you when I need to do it all, shave, wash my hair, body, face …. I can’t have him in there. Lol


    Post # 6
    2355 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    If we shower together, it’s mostly as a form of foreplay. If it’s just something romantic that’s not leading to sex, then it’s just a quick wash and not my normal shower routine with the bonus of someone to wash my back.

    Shower size is an issue, so it’s not something we do a lot, but I always enjoy it.

    Post # 7
    3355 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    we’ve been doing it a little more often than normal, I don’t know why. It doesn’t take much longer than our normal showers hahaha!! I like it. He also can’t wash his back very well so I do it for him with my loofah XD

    Post # 8
    4601 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2014


    We tried it a few times in my first place, but we had a much larger shower than we do now. Neither of us really got much out of it. We were tripping over each other and we were both annoyed by the time it was over. 

    Shower time is my time to relax, and shave my legs, and it’s hard enough to shave my legs with just me in the shower, much less FH. 

    I did have a really great garden tub in my last place and FH and I would sometimes hang out in there. 

    Post # 9
    125 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    FI and I shower together sometimes. If we are getting ready to go somewhere (work, to a meeting, etc.) we won’t shower together, but if we’re just getting ready for bed we will. I can understand though if there are space constraints like a PP said.

    Post # 10
    353 posts
    Helper bee

    We shower together once in a while, but usually alone is better. I like a quick shower, and he likes a long shower, so if we DO shower together, I’m usually out first.

    Post # 11
    7997 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2013

    @Stace126:  It’s ok sometimes, but I find one of us is either too cold or too hot. I love hot showers, SO doesn’t. When one of us is under the shower rinsing, the other one is freezing etc. lol. It just doesn’t work as a practical everyday kinda thing.

    Post # 12
    3084 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    @Stace126:  I don’t like it. I’ve tried it and I’m not into it. 

    Post # 13
    8720 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    FI likes it….I do not

    Post # 14
    2831 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    it sometimes saves water. however, our apartment has a tiny stall shower, so we can’t shower together. and after we move home, we’ll be sharing a bathroom with other people. so yeah.

    we do like it, though (:

    Post # 15
    2546 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    i love it, but sadly he doesn’t!

    Post # 16
    3778 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Almost every time I shower.. it’s with DH. I need my back scrubber!!!!!! We don’t really use it as sexy time or foreplay though. He gets too relaxed.. lol. But I love showering with him even though it is just showering. Love it 🙂

    ETA: It’s definitely a time we just connect and be together. Did I already say how much I love it!?

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