Post # 1
We are kinda in a unique situation. Awaiting US immigration to give us the ok to set a date..I will be travelling to visit FI in aug and sept and then wont be going again till we move a week or two prior to the wedding..(prob jan/feb)
FIs Mom wants to throw a shower…as do friends here..
Can i register without having a date set? I get FI can register us on his own as soon as we set the date but haha i dont really trust him..He doesnt care about colours, patterns china….And I think it would be fun…
How do i handle this? HELP
Post # 3
I know it’s weird but I think it’s your best bet for your situation.
Post # 4
I’d go ahead and register! Building a registry requires a lot of thinking about what you would like to have in your future home (and then of course colors, patterns etc), so starting early is a good thing in my opinion. If someone wants to give you something, they’ll have a lead on what you like and since they know you, they will know that the date might no be the official one yet.
I will start registering next week with my FI although we have not yet set a definite date. We’ll look at & decide on a venue in the next few weeks, so we can just change the date on our registry once it’s official. 🙂