Shut up and DO it already!!!

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
362 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

It always amazes me how guys pretend that we women control everything, especially weddings, while they are actually the ones playing with our life plans and our sanity during pre-engagement time… And if we dare say something, one word, just to find out what the heck is going on, then everyone, including other girls, tell us we are control freaks!

Soooo frustrating, I know!

Hope he gets his butt in gear soon so you two can start working towards the next step! 

Post # 4
2460 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Aww I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I had about a year of it so I know how you feel! I hope he puts his money where his mouth is soon and proposes!

Post # 5
243 posts
Helper bee

Preach it gurlll!! I hate how he brings it up but doesnt act on it…Dont tell me you are waiting for it to be shipped yet its been over a month and still nothing….and DONT tell me that u want it to be a surprise…its never gonna be a surprise, every day Im expecting it, so just grab ur little nut sack and do it already!!!!!



hahah I get sooo annoyed that every week I have at least 5 people ask me if we are getting married, saving up, looked at rings etc….id say all those people are making me go crazy more than anything

Post # 7
243 posts
Helper bee

@undercoverjoan:  tell me about it, i guess all we can do is try to distract ourselves from thinking about it…but yea, def hard to do!

Post # 9
73 posts
Worker bee

@soupir:  Exactly!!!  It’s the most frustrating double standard, for them to talk about it is a-okay, but if we bring it up we are pressuring them and being nutty and stiflling and emasculating them and Lord knows what else.  

Post # 10
573 posts
Busy bee

SO keeps aluding to name changes every other day now but I know the proposal isn’t going to happen soon.

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