(Closed) Shut up and Keep your Thoughts to yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Career
Post # 3
774 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh a few people at work have made some comments. The one my Fiance and I here most often is “why do you want to get married?” or “I feel sorry for him/her” and the best one yest… “I give you guys 3 years tops”

Post # 5
886 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

On our honeymoon we were driving between historic sight-seeing places.  There was a roadside fruit stand or produce seller that we pulled up beside since the “just married” decals were flying off our windows and we wanted to put them on the inside of the car cabin. Some random guy comes out and sees the stickers.  Basically says “Just married, huh? Give it 3 years.” Then proceeds to give us the story of his divorce. We backed out of there ASAP. What a jerk! The ironic thing is that when we got to our destination we parked beside a couple who saw the stickers and told us they’d visited the site as part of their 40th anniversary. We shared an anniversary with them! 🙂 So yeah, marriage can be tough. But don’t let random douches get you down about things.

Post # 6
3626 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

The people who I know who say this don’t have the balls to stand up to their spouses who make them unhappy so they take it out on others.

Post # 7
14498 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

You should have said ” Oh sweety, I know you are jealous of my guy getting a piece of this every night while you are still out at the bars begging the end of the night hoochies for a piece of ass.  But don’t be a hater, it just makes you look even more pathetic than you already seem to be.”  You have to turn it around on them to make them look like fools in front of their buddies instead of being the center of their attention.

Post # 8
3587 posts
Sugar bee

@redheadem:  I’m not married, but that’s it in a nutshell!

Post # 9
9618 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

that guy is an a-hole! and actually women cope better with divorce than men, men need women there to have stability, us women are the centre of our men’s world, we give meaning to their lives, and we remember all the important things, so when we leave men can’t cope. so i am sure he is actually miserable right now and was just taking it out on you for being happy! definite jerk

Post # 10
7779 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I guarantee you that his wife left him, not the other way around.

What a douche.

Post # 12
879 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Just sit back and imagine life in 20 years time.  He will be bald, and alone, without anyone to keep him company.  He will probably be one of those crazy bag men.

You, will  be happy, in a great life and relationship with wonderful children(should you so wish).

Who is going to have the better life?

Smirk, chucle, and let that loser dissapear from your mind!!

Post # 13
662 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

People are crazy & that guy seems incredibly bitter! I’ve had a few people make comments since we’ve been engaged but honestly- I used to get way more comments before we were engaged. People didn’t understand why I was still with him after 7 years without a ring. I just keep telling myself that it is nobody’s business but mine and my Fiance.

Keep your head up high- at the end of the day you know what is right for you and your Fiance.


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