- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
Hello Bee’s. I have an older sister, we’ll call her Lorena. Lorena is 4-5 years older than me and is divorced. She didn’t have a wedding the first time around because she was in a rebellious attitude and ran away to the courthouse with a guy she didn’t even like, just to prove a point. She’s one of those women that don’t take marriage seriously, so as expected, within MONTHS of getting married, she’s signing divorce papers.
Even before she was divorced, she was shacking up with another guy…
Now she’s engaged again and guess what? She got engaged the exact same date as I did (My whole family knew when my beau was going to pop the question because he wanted them involved, so there’s speculation she cried and whinned to her guy to do it first), NOT ONLY THAT, but then she had the audacity to say I forced my fiance to propose that same day because I was “jealous” she got engaged! My Fiance has been saving for a ring since we first started dating! Her Fiance proposed to her with my grandfather’s wedding band that he STOLE!
Let me fill you in on something: My sister’s Fiance is only 21, does drugs, abuses my sister and her autistic son from her previous failed marriage (cps is looking into it), has no job, no car, he cheats on her CONSTANTLY, vandelized my parent’s house (graffetti and paintballed their house on a drive by, recorded him on surveillance), stole family heirlooms and pawned them to pay for more drugs, etc. The list goes on. He’s a complete dirtbag! My ENTIRE family hates him so much we all have restraining orders against him, thus why we never see my sister for the holidays because her motto is “If he can’t come, then neither can I!” If you can only get a tip of the iceburg, as to what this couple is really like, then you would understand how angry and bitter I am right now….My problem is, my sister found out from a family member my wedding date, and has changed hers now to match it! WE are both set to get married October 5th! And to make matters worse, she is AGAIN saying that I copied her on this too! Even though shes only been with her guy less than 6 months and my fiance and I have had this date set for over 8!
My Fiance is taking this whole getting-engaged same day as us and getting married same day as us with a grain of salt because he considers their “Engagement” a joke. Which I can agree. My sister and her guy live in his parents basement and my sister is always crying on her facebook status’s that she’s worried she’s going to lose her guy, but then the next day her status is “Found a place to have our wedding, YAY!”. It’s a circus.
I feel like since she was already married, she shouldn’t be having a wedding. This only counts for her because she doesn’t take marriage seriously, it’s like she just wants a wedding and not the actual marriage. I know I sound bitter but it’s like she’s trying to cover my spotlight with hers to cover up her first mistake of a marriage. Bee’s please help, I’m so upset I’m sitting here with tears rolling down my cheeks…I feel helpless..