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posted 2 years ago in Emotional
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    I just want to be married. I've tried to talk FI into getting married asap and then having a party on our wedding date... but to no avail. I'm so sick of the planning and the drama that goes along with it.  If I had a chance to do this over, I'd have a 6 month engagement and a destination wedding.

    Anyone else feel this way?

     
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    kelsidawn    July 3, 2010  

    right there with you!  But it will all be worth it in the end.  All the people you love will be there, and the drama will soon be over!  I completely understand though! Good luck with everything!! :)

     
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    sweetlikcake    May 27, 2011  

    i feel the same way. im so tired of the drama and people talking smack thats why we decided to just elope but now we need to decide when that will be.. hang in there!

     
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    marlew    October 23, 2010   Ajax, Ontario

    150% there with you

     
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    HunnyBear    September 11, 2010   New Jersey

    I'm so there with you.  One of the bees just blogged about something like this and she couldn't have been more on the money about how I feel.  Not so excited about planning the wedding, but super excited about marrying my best friend and spending the rest of my life with him.  Wedding planning has made me crazy having to think of EVERY.SINGLE.DETAIL and who will be mad if I word something this way as opposed to that way...

    It also sucks that people I'm not close to like to speculate about my feelings about marrying FI since I'm not exactly thrilled about wedding planning....

     
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    eeniebeans    October 9, 2010   Baltimore

    I can sympathize. It has definately crossed my mind.

     
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    dmp777    July 10, 2010   NJ

    I know what all of you mean. Everyday there is a new drama. If everyone else would keep their noses out of my business and let me and my fiance do what we want things would be much smoother and drama free. But there are way too many people who always have comments. I can't wait for this planning to be done...which by the way seems never ending!

     

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