(Closed) Signs….am I waiting??

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I think you become a waiting bee when you feel like you are.  Congratulations!  And yes it does sound like it might be a speacial Christmas.  But the cynic that I am, having been a waiting bee for over a year after SO asked my Dad for my hand in JULY 2011(!) says try not to get your hopes up, enjoy it for whatever it is!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

@ForeverbluexX:  Seems like you could be BUT none of this screams imminent proposal to me. Be careful not to get your hopes up because thats how we wee bees become resentful!

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2019

oooh it does sound like you are waiting! How exciting. I love that he keeps bringing it up!!!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Awww this is so nice, it sounds like you are waiting, but yes don’t get too excited, I say hope for a nice present that isn’t a ring and you’ll be happy either way πŸ™‚ Sounds like you guys are happy regardless though, definitely enjoy that. Don’t forget a ring brings wedding planning and that may be stressful for you, so enjoy your time together just relaxing πŸ™‚

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

My FI was saying that kind of stuff about a year into our relationship, but it was in a cutesy romantic way that made me blush. Only about 2.5 years into our relationship did we sit down and actually talk about getting married and what a married life together would look like (our life goals and expectations, kids, money, religion, boundaries, etc. The big topics). So I think it’s cute that he’s doing all that, but until you guys talk concretely about what it means to be married and how your lives can fit together, it’s just dreamy love stuff.

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