- Wedding: June 2014 - Italiano's Humble
I’m expecting it from FH’s middle sister. The day I met her, was T’giving, and my son was with us.
First, she called my son FH’s “kinda stand in kid”. Which pissed us both off, b/c even tho my XSO and I don’t get along, he is an AWESOME father. Also, b/c Fh isn’t able to have much contact with his son, b/c of a crazy XW.
Then, my son got a tummy ache from eating and threw up on his plate(unbeknownst to me, Xh had let him have a TON of candy, even tho he told me he didn’t actually have a meal! asshole.). Like me, he’s SUPER self conscious about this kinda stuff, and while Fh and his dad/SM kindly turned their heads while I handled it, FSIL made her pathetic attempt to whisper loudly to FFIL, “omg, he’s throwing up, oh no look at that”, and of COURSE my son, who’s doing “ok” handling our little issue(as in, being calm, breathing etc-I’ve lost friends due to asphyxiation(sp?! wow), so this freaks me out), anyhow, he heard her, and immediately starts crying, bc he feels like he’s been “caught” doing wrong, and now has attention on him.
After I made sure he could safely walk, we went and cleaned him up. While doing so, Fh goes out to smoke, and FSIL goes out and says I force fed my son, and how he’s making a mistake, and she really wants him to think it through especially if he plans on having more kids.
Unfortunately, now that she’s living back home, we don’t visit often. Not many in the family(including her dad), really want much to do with her. she’s a drama queen, who will lie and front, and then blame everyone else, all while ruining granny’s credit with a $25k truck…yep, she’s a weiner lol…
So, I understand. She’s gonna be pissed when she figures out her invite doesn’t say +1, and that pretty much the entire family is hoping she doesn’t show up, and that if she does, she doesn’t bring the doped up deadbeat she’s apparently back with. that’s a topic I won’t touch. But, I’m bad when it comes to my son. So, if she mentions him again, I’ll throw it in her face that at least when it comes to “Daddy’s”, my son has one who GAF about him, and sees him as more than a trophy.