- DIY Rae
- 8 years ago
- Wedding: April 2010
My soon-to-be SIL is being a complete ________. Before I say anymore, let me start at the begining.
I have known her longer than I have known my Fiance. And no I didn’t meet him through her. We met because we actually worked together and I didn’t know they were related. We have been together for going on 5 years and have known her for about 7 years. Since the begining she has done everything possible to make our relationship fail. She was obviously unsuccessful (I have heard from lots of people that she probably just doesn’t like me.) Im not just some girl from off the streets!!!
I haven’t had the closest relationship with her in recent years because what she did and continues to do. (Trying to pick fights, gets others into the situation that don’t need to be involved, insults me, my family, HER OWN BROTHER!!!! Need I go on?)
So we fast forward to a week ago and she writes me this long nasty letter saying that she hopes our wedding ends soon, that she hopes he takes our son away from me, that im selfish and a whole lot more. I have a VERY forgiving heart, and I am always there for her no questions asked. But this where I will be drawing my line. I responded to her that I am sorry she feels that way but maybe she needs to consider both parties and not just herself. I asked her politely to stay out of my business and to worry about her life (she is going through a rough relationship-on again-off again type)
OH and she also went ahead and added her 2 cents about my father. For all of you bee’s reading this… my dad is dying of a terminal illness… so this really hurt me. She doesn’t even realize my dad’s current state and she says that he’s a worthelss father. My dad has raised my sister and I by himself and did the best that a father could do. I had the best childhood. Gah!!! (sorry a little venting) She also said she won’t be attending the wedding. Stab in the heart. She goes on and says I will never be a true ___His last name___ and that im a __fill in the blank__ and she hopes that I have the worst wedding ever.
I have never done anything to this women to make her say these things, we are always cleaning her house, watching her kids, buying her food, etc…, and we never ask for anything in return. I could care less to ask for something in return as long as she shows us that it was appreciated.
Anyways… my point is this…
Do I try to mend things with her because I feel sorry for her? Or do I let her go?
My Fiance has never had a good relationship with her, so he tells me to let it go and move on with our lives.
Im not one to hold on to things, but im having a hard time letting this go. Help me please!!! Any other SIL drama?