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posted 2 years ago in Family
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    NAPickle    May 29, 2010  

    When me and my FI first started dating, my FSIL really got along. But then his ex came back into the picture, and for the past 8 months she has not spoken to me until recently. To tell me that I would never replace the ex that she was apart of the family and always would be and I could get over it.

    This  really hurts because my family is so close, and we just dont treat each other like that no matter what. I told my FI how it makes me feel, and have cried to him night after night to do something about it, but his only reply is "Your not marrying her, your marrying me. Don't worry about it, I'm not."

    FSIL goes around talking crap about me to the family, and pretty much makes me feel like an outcast at family events. We have tried talking it out before, and while I apologized (for whatever I did, I don't even know I was just trying to keep the peace), she had to much pride, and just kept telling me everything wrong that I do.

    HELP!

     
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    Miss Lily    August 1, 2008   TX

    I have the same issues. Just ignore her. No sweat off your back. Seriously, you will be much happier without her drama.

     
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    mssocks    October 10, 2010  

    I think you really need to put your foot down with your fi.  He needs to stand up for you and let his sister know that it is NOT acceptable for her to treat you this way.  I know it'll be tough for him to do it, but he has to make it clear that her opinion on the matter is inappropriate and she needs to apologize.

     
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    KIKI82    October 30, 2010   SoCal

    IYour FI really needs to stand up for you if she is talking crap about you. It's one thing if she does not like you then you would just ignore that but not if there is someone saying bad things about you. That he needs to put an end to and talk to her himself and lay down some consequesnces for her so she has incentive to stop

     

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