Post # 1
So right now, boyfriend and I are sitting in my living room (him in an armchair and me on the sofa… he doesn’t like the sofa cause it’s leather and it makes him sweaty) having our “work night.” We take one night a week to work on stuff together in the same room but don’t really talk; since we don’t live together it’s a good way for us to just chill without talking since we spend every single night talking nonstop! Anyway, he’s working on a writing sample for phd applications and every once in a while, I can see him looking at me out of the corner of my eye and it is so cute! It’s one of those silly things that makes me really comfortable in our relationship.
What is something that makes you comfortable in your relationship?
Post # 3
my hubby is so comfortable he falls asleep on me! we have these fab high backed leather cinema reclining seats at home (with cup holders, he chose them obviously) and i swear, he sits in it for 5mins and hes snoozing away while he forces me to watch pro bull riding on the tv! the second i turn the plasma off he says “i was watching that”…. no dear, when your eyes are closed and you are softly snoring like that… thats called sleeping
the fact that we can tease eachother about stuff and not fight is what makes me comfy in our relationship
Post # 4
He is a morning person, I am not by any means. When I stay over, he is always up an hour before me puttering around the house, and wakes me up with the sweetest kisses and a big smile. Just waking up to his sunny affectionate demeanor is almost better that any caffeine to start the day.
Post # 5
We have been together for 10 years (and married for 1 month!) and frequently send each other emails and texts that say ‘smooooooooooooch’!
I love it.
Post # 6
i got to bed late and he goes to bed early-i have to tuck him in every night!
Post # 7
^ lol. My boy goes to sleep late and I sleep early and he tucks me in every night
We have tons of little silly things. He will squeeze my hand 3 times for “I love you” and I will squeeze back twice for “me too” or vice versa
Post # 8
we wrestle! haha not that kind of wrestle (well that too!). we rough house! he’ll tease me and i’ll pinch him and he’ll chase me and then i jump on his back, and before you know it, we’re asleep on the floor in some weird tangled heap lol!
Post # 9
@ Bellini. We wreastle too! He actually dislocated my finger once on accident and thought I was faking it when I fell to the floor screaming. But it was worth it. I made him feel bad for weeks. Breakfast in bed, the whole nine yards. lol
Post # 10
wrestling!!! we have a money box where all our gold goins ($1 & $2 coins) go into – it takes about 6months to fill it up and its usually about $1800.00
anyways… hubby generally chases me around the room and then throws me onto the bed before he wrestles my coins from me a few times during the week… wonder what the neighbours think 🙂
Post # 11
We always answer the phone with each other’s (very embarrassing) pet names — he calls me mine and I call him his, and we say them to each other back and forth about 5 times! This happens multiple times a day since we are long distance and talk on the phone a lot. When one of us is in public and we talk on the phone, its funny when the one in public is trying to be normal, like “Hey, sweetie,” and the other one just goes ahead with the ritual! It’s a silly thing we do but it makes me smile every time.
Post # 12
We always have our “spots” on the couch, and when I’m at school he calls me every morning as my alarm clock =] There’s a million and one things that make him awesome and me super comfortable in our relationship!
Post # 13
He thinks my farts are cute. ‘Nuff said!
Post # 14
Ah yes, wrestling! I never thought I’d have so much fun being so…violent! 😀 In a playful way, of course. He’ll pin me down but I can always find a way to tickle him (he’s veryyyy ticklish…very cute, haha) and get out of the hold. We have all kinds of ridiculous antics that make our relationship comfortable and fun.
Post # 15
@mountain.bride – so funny!
Since we don’t live together, FI and I spend our evenings being mom and (step)dad. We do dinner and homework, oversee baths and all that. After the kids are in bed, we snuggle on the couch, watch a little tv, or read. I don’t do well without enough sleep and as much as it irritates me, I need a lot of it. FI usually ends up sending me to bed fairly early or I fall asleep on his lap. Either way, he tucks me in or rubs my back/holds my hand/strokes my hair until I fall asleep. I’m spoiled, I know. hehe.
Post # 16
We thumb wrestle. I always win, despite the fact that he’s 100lbs heavier and 10x stronger. Muahahaha. He also likes smacking my butt in public situations when I can’t get him back. He’s really good at winking (love it, so sexy & charming) and frequently gives me foot massages.
The best thing is that he’s high energy and has this tendency to run around doing stuff even when he’s exhausted. So whenever he sits down with me to watch a movie or relax, it takes about ten seconds before he’s snoring on my shoulder. Apparently I have a magical ability to relax him and put him to sleep, haha. That definitely gives me a comfortable feeling. 🙂