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I am so sorry. If it is of any consolation, any man who can leave like this when he is engaged could disappear overnight when you are married and have children. Don't worry about seeing that now though - right now you should take some time to mourn the loss of the dream that you had about your future. Later, after you have eaten a lot of chocolate (maybe this is just me) and are feeling better you can process what happened and learn from it. I hope that the pain lessens soon.
I'm so sorry Stina, what a horrible thing to happen. Have you thgouth abotu re-reading Fondue's or Snappy's posts? They went through terrible times at one point, but I think they're both happier knowing what they avoided now. I'm just so sorry you had someone treat you like that, you don't deserve it!
Stina,
I believe that everything happens for a reason. I know that is not a great explanation and does not alleviate your pain. Take care in knowing that anyone who ends a relationship that way can't possibly love you in the way you need.
I'm so sorry that happened to you! I am a strong believer that everything happens for a reason and I second reading Miss Snapdragon's & Miss Fondue's posts...Miss Snappy just posted the other day about how life really does get better...best of luck and big hugs to you!
I'm sorry Stina. Don't feel like you don't have a support group here, even if you are single. Lots of ladies read Weddingbee and are able to talk about all sorts of things, so feel free to stick around and we'll always be here to listen. You deserve much better than that and I'm sure you will find true happiness and forget all about him! xoxo
So sorry to hear that this happened to you. & I second Mrs. CC - the Bee is like therapy for me at times - feel free to vent, cry, whatever you need to do. We'll be here!
So sorry to hear this. The 'Bee is a great place to vent your frustrations, get support, etc. so don't leave us just yet! Keep your head up, things will get better!
I am so so so Sorry (((BIG BEE HUGS))), I hope you feel better soon :)
I am so sorry to hear that, Stina! Please don't feel like you have to leave us just because of that though!
Stina - I am very sorry that this happened to you! When you are up to it, go out and celebrate the fact that someone like that is no longer in your life. You have been blessed that this happened now instead of after being married with children. The pain will sting (no pun intended) but it will pass and you will be happy again!
We are here to support you. Keep your head up, girl!
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I am so sorry this happened! Again, it is best it happen now rather than after marriage (when it is DOUBLY harder to split up) and if you two were parents. We're here for you.
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I'm very sorry this happened to you Stina. Just know that we're here for support...even after everything feels as if it's gone wrong. I wish nothing but the best for you and keep your head held high. I have no doubt that you'll be back in no time with someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved!
Stina... I'm so sorry to hear about what happened. *hugs* ... I just want to repeat what caitlanc said, please don't feel like you have to leave just because of this. This community is definitely here for any support you may need.
What a horrible thing for a person to do. Shame on that man, you certainly deserve much better!
I am so sorry, I wish you all the best
Everyone here is so amazing. Thanks for the support. At times, I know that I am SO much better off, but then I start to think about things we had planned, things we did, and even just sitting around together. I am still having problems believing it really happened. My head knows that I am better off, but my heart is broken. Thanks for the support. He took the internet with him, so I am not able to update all that often, but I plan on getting it again soon.
I am so sorry this happened. I agree with the people who said it's better now then later. I know it's hard to hear that, but you'll get through it.
What a jerk! I am so sorry. Take the time to mourn your loss. It's probably better this way. Obviously. He so didn't deserve you. But you also didn't deserve what happened...no explaination, no nothing? I am so sorry! Guys can be jerks!
*bear hugs* anyone who is dumb enough to walk out on someone as awesome as i am sure you are clearly does not deserve you
Oh stina, I am so sorry! I know we can all say you are better off and you will realize this in time, but I know this might not help when you are very much hurting right now. Just know that everyone is hurting for you. Feel better and please update us so we know you are okay. BIG hugs!
I am so sorry this happened to you! But believe me I know exactly what you are going through. My wedding was supposed to be a few weeks ago, my fiance decided 4 days before our wedding that he just wasn't ready for marriage. No explanation, no talking, just made the decision packed his things and left. I feel the same way you do, hurt and sad, and also mad. The emotions change day to day, and sometimes I even miss him (as crazy as it sounds). I have so many questions that are not answered, and just never saw this coming. I've had MIL issues from the beginning, she couldn't cut the cord and was jealous of me and our relationship, because her husband didn't treat her good. My fiance always used to put me first until recently, which hurt me and caused some arguing between us (exactly what MIL wanted). I'm not sure, but my gut tells me she had something to do with this. I guess I will never know truly what happened, but I know it's not easy to deal with. What hurts the most is having the person you usually turn to turn his back on you. Like I keep telling myself, everything happens for a reason and it's sure to be a blessing in disquise.
SO very sorry to hear this. I know it hurts now but in reality, it is a blessing that has prevented years of heartache. I have been in long miserable relationships and they are such a waste of time and energy. When my ex of 20+ years left me for a bar skank, I was devasted. I never believed I would love again. Now I am getting married this Friday. You are destined for someone much more loving. Believe!
I'm so sorry you poor girl. Do you have friends and family to fall back on? I sure hope so. If not, feel free to PM me any time. For now (((HIVE HUGS)))
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He moved out. He didn't leave an explanation- He just moved out one night when I was at work. I was stupid enough to believe his lies. I am hurt, I am sad, and mostly, I am mad. I want to say goodbye to my bee friends. I know I haven't written too much, but I have definitely been around and reading for a while. Good luck and good bye to you all!!