(Closed) single

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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563 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I am so sorry.  If it is of any consolation, any man who can leave like this when he is engaged could disappear overnight when you are married and have children.  Don’t worry about seeing that now though – right now you should take some time to mourn the loss of the dream that you had about your future.  Later, after you have eaten a lot of chocolate (maybe this is just me) and are feeling better you can process what happened and learn from it.  I hope that the pain lessens soon.

Post # 4
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1091 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2018 - Oakland Manor

I’m so sorry Stina, what a horrible thing to happen.  Have you thgouth abotu re-reading Fondue’s or Snappy’s posts? They went through terrible times at one point, but I think they’re both happier knowing what they avoided now. I’m just so sorry you had someone treat you like that, you don’t deserve it!

Post # 5
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131 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009 - Battery Gardens

Stina,

I believe that everything happens for a reason. I know that is not a great explanation and does not alleviate your pain. Take care in knowing that anyone who ends a relationship that way can’t possibly love you in the way you need.  

Post # 6
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5399 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m so sorry that happened to you!  I am a strong believer that everything happens for a reason and I second reading Miss Snapdragon’s & Miss Fondue’s posts…Miss Snappy just posted the other day about how life really does get better…best of luck and big hugs to you!

Post # 7
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124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Our backyard!

I’m sorry Stina. Don’t feel like you don’t have a support group here, even if you are single. Lots of ladies read Weddingbee and are able to talk about all sorts of things, so feel free to stick around and we’ll always be here to listen. You deserve much better than that and I’m sure you will find true happiness and forget all about him! xoxo

Post # 8
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2820 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

*HUGS* I’m so sorry.

Post # 9
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948 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2018 - Coyaba Resort, Montego Bay

So sorry to hear that this happened to you.  & I second Mrs. CC – the Bee is like therapy for me at times – feel free to vent, cry, whatever you need to do.  We’ll be here!

Post # 10
Member
416 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2008 - Imperia Hotel (modern chic hotel)

Oh I am so sorry. I hope you feel better soon.

Post # 11
Member
199 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Catholic ceremony, reception at local armory

So sorry to hear this.  The ‘Bee is a great place to vent your frustrations, get support, etc. so don’t leave us just yet!  Keep your head up, things will get better!

Post # 12
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963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009 - Bernardo Winery

I am so so so Sorry (((BIG BEE HUGS))), I hope you feel better soon 🙂

Post # 13
Member
1276 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I’m so very sorry to hear this.  I’m sending warm thoughts your way.

Post # 14
Member
458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m so sorry!  We’ll miss you!

Post # 15
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2008 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I am so sorry to hear that, Stina!  Please don’t feel like you have to leave us just because of that though!

Post # 16
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2856 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Stina – I am very sorry that this happened to you! When you are up to it, go out and celebrate the fact that someone like that is no longer in your life. You have been blessed that this happened now instead of after being married with children. The pain will sting (no pun intended) but it will pass and you will be happy again!

We are here to support you. Keep your head up, girl!

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