- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
My sister is 29 and divorced. She also has a six year old son. During her late high school/early college years she got involved with a guy we will call Dave. Dave is one of those guys who has some serious issues. During that time he was in and out of college and was always in trouble. My sister during that time made some not so great choices but avoided anything drastic. It was a very stressful time in the family to say the least. It took him cheating more than once for her to see the light. Since then my sister graduated college and entered into a successful career. She also got married and had a son. Two years ago she got divorced and did not date much since. A while back she ran into Dave and now after a couple of weeks they are fairly serious. The problem is Dave has not changed a bit. He has no job at the moment and is promising her and my nephew the world. In the past couple of weeks I have seen a major personality change in my sister. I worry that this guy is going to mess up a lot of things for my sister. My parents have no idea about any of this and would go crazy if they did. Should I just wait and see how things progress?