- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
So i just realized I might be hurting my SIL’s (brothers wife) feelings.
So my FI and I have been engaged for over a year now.
I asked my BMs quite a while ago. Here’s who they are:
MOH-Future SIL (fince’s sister-we are SUPER CLOSE and I was her MOH)
5 of my best friends/sorority sisters that I am super close with!
That makes six which is PERFECT because its an even number (Im a little OCD) and I do not want more than that!
My fiance has asked my brother and his brother in law (my MOH’s hubby) and a few of his buddies.
Some of his buddies cant make it so Im going to have more maids than he will groomsmen but im hoping it wont be too noticeable…
Recenly my brothers wife had a baby and my MOH will have a 1 month old at the wedding.
There are no other little ones we are close with and we are super excited to encorporate our new nieces into our ceremony as baby flower girls….
Here’s the problem….
I did not ask my brother’s wife to be a BM…i like her but we really arent that close….
So now that we added my brother, my fi’s brother in law and the babies, my brother’s wife is the only sibling in the family who isnt included…
And now i feel bad that I might hurt her feelings….
Its WAY too late to add her at this point…all my maids have long since ordered their dresses and shoes….and she would have to order 1 on rush….I have already made my BM’s gifts…..that would give me 7 BMs to my FI’s 4 groomsmen…plus it would give me an odd number of maids…
I think if I asked her now anyways it would be an obvious after thought….
Anyone have ideas for something special she can do during the ceremony? We arent really into readings at all…..but there’s got to be something special she can do….