Sister-in-Law vs Cousin as Last Bridesmaid??

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge

Can you make one a BM and the other your Personal Attendant?

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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Why not ask both of them?

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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Is Sept 2015 your right date?  I ask because maybe you should wait to decide?  They really don’t have roles until starting a year or so out. 

Honestly, I thought I had to decide and choose soon after we got engaged, and I did and I have regrets.  We only got engaged in March, and I am already sad about who I asked to be in the wedding (which is part of the reason- one of many- we might be eloping instead). 

I asked my sister and two close friends, and I already wish I hadn’t asked the one friend at all.  If I had o pick today, I wouldn’t consider her. 

See how the bond develops, or if it doesn’t then decide.  Wait until next year!

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