Post # 1
Ok my wedding was orginally May 2012. I never told my sister about my wedding date change because I wanted her to order her dress she is my Maid/Matron of Honor. Now if I was still going to have my wedding in May It would not be enough time for her to order her dress and to make sure it got here before May. I am upset becasue she still has not took the initative to order her dress. Whether if my wedding was in May or September I just feel like she does not care. So i am done reminding friends and family to do any thing for this wedding. Im so irritated.
Good news Im going to the bridal expo March 1st. I”ve never been there before.
Post # 3
Is it possible she heard about the date change from another family member? If I were your sister, I’d be really angry at you for not even bothering to tell me, because, frankly, that’s rude. She’s your Maid/Matron of Honor and you passive-aggressively aren’t telling her the actual wedding date? You need to confront her directly, admit that you messed up by not telling her the new date, and ask if she’d still like to be a part of your day. If she does, she needs to step up and order the dress. If not, she needs to gracefully back out.
Regardless, not telling your honor attendant that you changed your wedding date is immature.
Post # 4
Um, it sounds like you’re upset about a situation that didn’t even happen.
Like abbie said, do you think someone might have told her? And why on earth would you not tell her? She’s probably feeling a bit upset. Maybe you should talk to her?