(Closed) Sister Issues…Help!!

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I havnt had a falling out with my sister but we do fight every now and then. I can only suggest that you take your sister out to dinner or something and really discuss what’s going on. I agree that it would be pretty awful to not have my sister at my wedding but I don’t know that I could forgive so easily if something that serious went down. Also, remember that it’s not your job to teach her a lessson. Just be her sister and do whatever your heart tells you to. Try not to punish her for making a stupid mistake, talk to her and figure out where you two stand.

Post # 5
Member
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Maybe you could write her a letter saying that you really want to mend the relationship? I’m sure she feels weird about whatever happened and doesnt know how to talk about it. It might be easier to write something down. I know how sisters can be and the fights can get out of control but I also know that my sister is my best friend and I couldnt get married without her being there.

Post # 6
Member
11273 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

i would still invite her to the wedding.  it will be up to her if she attends.  if she doesn’t attend, then you know that it wasn’t due to her not being invited.  you won’t regret anything.

Post # 7
Member
466 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I definitely feel you here. I had a falling out with my middle sister. Nothing as serious as a physical altercation but it definitely hurt my feelings. Just like your sis my family has never let her have to pay for her actions they just ignore it and thats what I have always done when she was a complete and total bitch to me. My mom is actually on my side this time and told me dont be the first to apologize this time because then she thinks its ok to act this way.

Here is a link to the drama: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/just-a-family-vent

We saw each other for the first time just this past Tuesday and she said not one word to me, even after I asked her how her surgery went, not one word. 

At this point since I gotten hardcore into the planning of this wedding, if she doesnt come around, its safe for me to say that she is no longer in the wedding. I hate to do it that way but she really hurt me and she always does.

If I were you I would try to talk to her one more time. IF there is no result then you have to move on with your day. ITs about you, and it should be special for you. Dont let negative people, including family, get you down.

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