- 8 years ago
- Wedding: December 2011
I have a serious deliema and I don’t know what to do. My sister and I have always been close, so close we lived together happily for 3 years. Things seemed to still be okay and then her & I moved to a new apartment for a very unhappy 2 years. For these 2 years, her & I have barely spoke. I have tried to talk to her probably about 1 1/2 years ago and she seemed to shut me out and we got nowhere. So we were camping another, (July 2009) and I had a few drinks and it gave me the courage to talk to her again, but once again she shut me out and kept telling me, “that I’m the problem and it’s my fault, etc” My mom ended up telling us each to go to our own campers and leave each other alone. My parents seem to be on my side as my sister has some serious attitude problems quite often. My friends don’t really care for her much. I just got engaged a little over a month ago and she has not called or said anything to me regarding this. We were even at a family function a few weeks ago and everytime someone brought up the wedding or asked to see my ring, she would walk away.
And here we are today… I originally had 4 girls in my wedding party (my very good cousin (MOH), 2 of my best friends, and my other cousin – that we promised each other when we were kids that we would be in each others weddings). And just today I asked 1 of my other friends, that had randomly come back into my life under very odd circunstances. So now I have a total of 5. My fiance has 5 groomsmen.
What do I do with my sister?? I would love to have her by my side, but I’ve made 2 attempts and I don’t know what else to do. I am also asking my 2 brothers to be our ushers. So she would be the only one left out. (Sigh) I just don’t know what to do. I am the oldest (30) and she is (27).