(Closed) sister/MOH drama

posted 5 years ago in Dress
Post # 4
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705 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Why on earth did you choose her to be your MOH?  Just tell her that she can show up on the day of the wedding in a short, chiffon dress from DB in the color that you have chosen or she can step down as your MOH.  Really that’s all you can do if she’s determined to be a pain about this.

Post # 5
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620 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Since she is your MOH, you can (only if you want her to!) have a different or slightly different dress. If you are willing to compromise (again), you can give her that option, if not – she needs to choose a dress from the ones you narrowed down or step down from her role.  It sounds silly to act this way over a dress – I think you need to get to the bigger issue here. 🙁

Post # 6
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2053 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@sevensevenseven:  Well then, she can wear any dress she’d like…as a guest. Don’t give her the satisfaction of giving any more attention to her meltdown. Good luck!

Post # 7
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87 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Ugh I feel your pain. I have two much younger sisters who are my BMs. I’m a fairly laid back person so for months I was saying they could research their dresses to show me what they liked – didn’t happen. Then I suggested a few of my choices but they were all pooh-poohed. Finally I put my foot down and just picked a dress which everyone is wearing and there is to be no complaining about it. There are certain responsibilities of being a BM, sister or no, and that includes wearing a dress you may or may not have chosen, be happy about it, or pretend to be happy about it. Don’t get me wrong, I love my sisters dearly. 🙂

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