- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
I hope this doesn’t come across as being bitchy but my feelings really got hurt today. My sister is getting married in less than 160 days and her MOH has been a royal pain in the ass! I know she means well, but not once has she contacted us aside from a FB message in FEBRUARY. She then had the NERVE to tell my sister:
“I keep trying to get in touch with (the other bridesmaids) and they aren’t responding!”
– Are you FREAKING kidding me? I got her FB message in February and definitely responded to it only for no further contact to be made!
The icing on the cake was getting my sister’s shower invitation in the mail today and her MOH was the ONLY one listed as the host! She’s a bit of a drama-queen so I know trying to talk to her isn’t going to work, but I’m sick of being left-out and accused of not helping! I don’t want to stress my poor sister out any more than she already is because this girl really hasn’t acutally done a whole lot to help out and I actually remain in as close contact as her work schedule will allow (plus we live 3 blocks from each other… it’s not like I’m not available)
So frustrated… and to make things worse, the MOH’s mom is my sister’s FMIL and she’s been really hateful towards my family because we can’t afford to contribute as much financially as they can and I’m about to go off on one of these bitches.
ETA: I have made sure that the MOH and my sister both know that I will help in any way they need me to, but nobody says what needs done until it is a high stress point for my sister.