(Closed) SATC… Did anyone see and what would you do if….

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I would tell him. Because imagine how we would feel if they did that to us and we found out somehow…

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I would tell him. Because imagine how we would feel if they did that to us and we found out somehow….

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

First off I LOVE SATC!

I would definitely tell him. To me lying and keeping something from your partner is worse than admitting your mistakes right when they happen. Admitting it right away shows remorse. Trying to hide something with continual lies shows that you just don’t want the other person to get upset. And in my opinion that is far worse!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

i would tell him because i frequently have verbal diarreha and i know it would come out eventually.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Yeah I would tell him, couldn’t imagine keeping that secret from him forever.

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

sex and the city 1 was sooo much better!!  I cant believe you can kiss a guy, tell your hubbie and then get a ring out of the deal lol.

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper

I think I would tell too. I think I would feel too guilty to keep it a secret for very long.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

@blondeebuckeye: HA! I’m the same way, I love the term “verbal diarreha”, my FI will crack up and probably start telling me to get pepto for my words if I’m not careful 😉

 

Oh, and I’m with the other girls–I’d tell (not that I think I’d get in the situation in the first place! I’m perfect, you know!) 😉

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

actually had that happen, but in reverse. my FH told me he kissed his ex- as a friend, didnt mean anything, kind of a habit type of thing they were saying bye, etc, and i BLEW UP. but got over it.

because i realized if it DID mean something he wouldnt have told me. and it hasnt happened again. probably helps that i threatened to lorenna bobbit him. 🙂

but i would probably tell him if it was something like that.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m in the minority here but I wouldn’t say anything. For me, if it’s a one time deal and I recognize that I made a terrible mistake, it’s not worth hurting him just to relieve my guilty conscience. 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee

I’m with Jillbean. I wouldn’t say anything. I wouldn’t have even told my friends because they could tell. I’d walk away and let the mistake go. Not likely I’ll see that person again anyway.

I know that sounds deceitful, but all men are not as forgiving as Big was. Not at all. A stupid mistake is a stupid mistake. I wouldn’t have even went to dinner with someone I could possibly kiss or do more with anyway.

 

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I agree with Jillbean! If it truly meant nothing, I wouldn’t want to hurt him just so I could feel better.

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