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I had one, my mom bought had been saving it since a friend brought if back for her from Europe when she was in college.
I'm doing the silver sixpence in my shoe!!
You do? I have yet to find one that mentions it. I'll keep looking lol :)
Yay! Glad there's a few people popping up who are doing it also, especially sepcifically IN THE SHOE yaaaaay! :D
my shoes are peep toe so I am taping it in lol I'm using a sixpence my FI found while we were walking together at the start of our relationship. hopefully it will bring us wealth
@Spoonie: I really want to get a sixpence. I've heard a coin minted in the year you were born works too, but I'll try to do the sixpence thing.
Hi bees, I've been lurking for a while (before I was even officially engaged), but finally decided to register so that I could respond to this. I am doing the sixpence in my shoe! My fiance's Grandpa's wife is from England and gave me one of hers, which is so special and means a lot. I wasn't sure if anyone else still carried out the tradition. I am newly engaged so I have no clue about my shoes (figured I'd be in flip flops honestly?), so I may be taping it like almost mrs. Also, my future family member said the tradiition is to put the sixpence in your left shoe, just in case you were curious!
The sixpence that I'll use is my mother's from her wedding. She was given it by a dear friend who brought it back from England just for her!
My grandmother set aside 2 pennies on the day that it was born. One was for me and the other was for DH. She wanted us to wear them in our shoes but neither of us thought that would be comfortable so we taped them to the bottoms. It was a tradition that I didn't care about (or even know about for that matter) but it was important to her so we did it.
@almost mrs: I love that! It makes it extra special! How lovely! :) I'm also taping mine, just so it doesn't rattle around lol
@Coffee cup: Ooh I haven't heard of that...I'll end up having a coin in each shoe now lol!
@MelBel: I couldn't find anyone else who was doing it either, it was like it had faded from existence but I thought it might be because I'm English or something. It's nice you have one of sentimental value :) Oh and thank you for telling me it's the left shoe, I didn't even know that :)
@Missbliss: Aww it's nice to see so many people with sentimental sixpences, and especially nice that your mother already used it for the same thing!
@UpstateCait:
That's lovely that she had them intended for you both right from birth and that's a good way of getting round the discomfort lol
Thanks everyone for your replies :)
I wore a penny in my shoe. It happened to be the same exact penny that my mother wore in her shoe on her wedding day, so it made it extra special. My parents will celebrate their 37th anniversary in June, so I hope a little of their luck rubs off on us.
It's definitely something I will pass on to my daughter.
@Spoonie: A tradition my step-dad always does is he finds a penny with our birth year that we wear in our shoe. Not sure if it comes from that saying or what? I think its kindof cool though
ill be doing it. i got a penny from a interfaith minister and she blessed it.. so im hoping itll add to the luck!
Yep, I'll have a sixpence in my shoe! A good friend is letting me borrow the one she used.
@Spoonie: I am planning on doing it and bought mine off the net. I also think they saying needs to be update with:
Something handmade
Something off the internet
I definitely taped one in my shoe! I thought it was cute. The marriage didn't last, but I can't really blame the coin for that...though I don't want to use the same coin again because I'm unreasonably scared that it's bad mojo.
@Spoonie: I had one! My friend brought it back from England for me as she was there when I got engaged. I wore a sandal though, so it was technically "a sixpence taped to the bottom of your shoe".
I'm not doing it in my shoe, as I'm afraid I would lose it and it's special to me. My grandfather gave me a sixpence right after we got engaged - I told him to keep it so I didn't lose it before the big day. He insisted that I keep it and I'm so glad he did, as he passed away in November. :/ It makes it really special. I am tying it to my bouquet so I can see it.
Back when I got married in the 80's----most people I knew used a penny. Remember, we didn't have interwebs back then. LOL
My daughter's wedding in June---we used a silver sixpence and I bought 2 extras---one for my other daughter and for my future daughter-in-law, should she need one. :-)
On the phrase---we took it a step further and included it into the wedding program, letting our guests in on what was borrowed, blue, old, new, etc. Guests that commented on it liked that idea too.
Oh yeah...and we taped it to her shoe, but she decided right before the ceremony to go barefoot. LOL So it did not make the trip down the aisle with her.
My brother is a railroad conductor so my take on the sixpence is a squished quarter he gave me a few years back when he started his career :)
My brother is a railroad conductor so my take on the sixpence is a squished quarter he gave me a few years back when he started his career :)
I thought it would be uncomfortable in my shoe so I had a cutesy little sheer fabric holder that held it, which was attached to the back of my shoe.
Random fun facts:
-something old is to remind the marrying couple where they come from, and the family history they represent
-something new symbolizes the couples new life together, and hope of health, wealth, and prosperity. (togetherness & success)
-something borrowed is supposed to indicate that whatever the couple will encounter, they can count on help from their family/friends
-something blue is to symbolize purity (it used to be the color of purity, before white claimed that title) and loyalty/modesty/love
-sixpence in her shoeà I’ve heard of this one two ways: one it is an offering to (I honestly don’t remember who), and is supposed to insure fertility. Or, I’ve also heard that it’s supposed to bring them financial stability.
Also- rain on your wedding day is good luck and symbolizes prosperity. Glad to say, I was married on thee hottest, wettest (6 inches or something ridiculous like that between midnight and nine am - it was dry that year!), day of the summer.
I was living in London when I got engaged and while there bought a sixpence to put in my shoe on my wedding day! I still have it, and have given it to my sister-in-law for good luck (and alos as her "something borrowed." I plan to lend it to my sister for her upcoming wedding as well! I love the tradition!
I bought the sixpence off of ebay a few weeks ago, it was only like $2.00
I'm wondering now, how am I going to have this coin in my shoe without being uncomfortable?
I have a sixpence from the year of my mum's birth that I shall be attatching on the outside of my shoe (I am customising my shoes with buttons, so it should look cute alongside the buttons)
@Garnety: You won't feel it, promise. I don't even like to wear socks because they're uncomfortable, but I didn't even feel the coin.
I think it's a lovely tradition that many brides don't consider.
My mom, the Captain of telling me what is "traditional", didn't seem to know about the last line. I think I only found out about it on the Bee! I won't be doing it myself.
I plan on doing it, but I have yet to get mine. I'm going to probably try eBay or etsy and probably get some for my sisters and daughter for when they get married.
i did it and i forgot it was there most of the day. i used double sided tape so it would stick to the shoe without falling out
I lucked out on finding mine; my paternal grandfather travelled extensively and brought back coins from all over (including several sixpence). I'll have to try the double sided tape...
I'll have one in my shoe - my FMIL got it for me, together with a lovely little "something blue" pin. Such a sweet gesture!
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So it seems most people do the;
"Something Old,
Something New,
Something Borrowed,
Something Blue"
But pretty much nobody says the final line or even does the old tradition:
"And a silver sixpence in her shoe" these days.
I just wanted to know if anyone is doing this? I've seen a thread where ladies are using sixpences, but rather just for luck than actual tradition and not in their shoes either lol.
I've bought a silver sixpence from etsy and will definitely have it in my shoe on the day and wanted to know whether I'm not alone in this? :)