- 4 years ago
Our friend Randy used to like a girl, we’ll call her Penny.
Penny put Randy in “the friend zone” and proceeded to have sex with all of his male friends (INCLUDING my FI. This was ~10 years ago).
She’d borrow money from Randy, spend nights at his house (she’d sleep next to him too,) borrow his car, etc…
Then she went off and got married to some dude, and had a baby. Stopped talking to Randy for a few years. Randy was crusssshed.
Two months ago, while we, (about 4 of us,) were all at Randy’s house, she stops by his place (with her 5 year old kid!) at 11pm. Unexpectedly. “Just to say hi” was her reason.
While we were leaving, on the ride home, I looked at the FI and said “I bet you $50, that she’ll be moving in with him.” And oh.. lookie here, she’s moved in with Randy. He calls her his “roommate.”
She’ll probably make him pay her share of rent, borrow his car, eat his food, etc etc… only now, WE have to deal with her. He wants to bring her/invite her every time we hang out. And if she cant make it, he doesn’t come either. THEY ARE NOT DATING. She works, and dates random dudes, and goes along with her life. He clings to her every word, and wants to be with her. It’s sad, and frustrating to watch from the sidelines.
She’s white trash. She’s dirty. She’s a liar. She STEALS (from grocery stores.. but I always keep my purse close by when she’s around). She’s not a hard worker. She uses people. And I feel really sorry for her baby girl (when we have to hang out with her and her kid, I cook them some healthy homemade food.. because all she feeds her is mcdonalds).
I want nothing to do with this woman. My FI feels uncomfortable around her too, because they hooked up once… and because she hooked up with Randy and FI’s TWO OTHER MALE FRIENDS.
(BTW, Randy doesnt know that the FI and Penny hooked up. Sometimes, I want to just blurt it out.)