Skank alert in our group. I'm tired of friend drama!!

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

God that would be frustrating to watch!!! Poor randy. Unfortunately it’s his life and he sounds old enough to make his own decisions and should technically be smart enough to cut a user like her. In my experience this girl will get bored soon and will move on to the next eventually. Until then I think u may have to either say something subtlety thn leave it or just leave it full stop and let this bitch run her course. People like her eventually burn their bridges 

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

She reminds me of scarlett johansson’s character in he’s just not that into you. 

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper

And coming on the internet and calling someone a skank, white trash, dirty, a liar and accusing them of stealing is not creating drama? Why do really dislike her? Is it because she once slept with your SO? Becaue how many men an individual women chooses to sleep with is no ones business. Slut shaming is pretty low in my book.

It is not your relationship so stay out of it. Your friend, as an adult, can choose to do what ever he likes with his life and spend it with whomever he likes. If you are disappointed that your friend might miss your wedding let him know how important it is to you guys for him to be there. This is on him and not her. All that you are complaining about are his behaviours so the blame lays with him.

Post # 12
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Honey bee

She sounds terrible but you just have to let Randy learn on his own. It sounds like he doesn’t want to. Can you try to set him up with someone nice so he knows he deserves better?

Post # 13
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Busy Beekeeper

@AquaGrey8962:  So don’t go shopping with her. It is an easy fix. out of interest was she ever charged?

But there is still no need to call her a POS or a skank.

Post # 14
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640 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Sounds like Randy needs to grow a set…

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@SoupyCat:  +1. A lot of us have dated/been interested in people and had our friends say ‘I don’t like them’ but we ignore their advice because it’s TRUE LOVE…until we finally figure out that the person is a massive turd and our friends were 100% right. Unfortunately, no amount of friend intervention prevented us from having to learn this lesson on our own.

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon:  I was thinking that I havent heard the word “skank” since high school. This sounds like “drama” that used to occur when I was a teenager also. I would honestly just stop hanging out with Randy if she is the company he wishes to keep. Easy. Sometimes in life you have to cut people off or, at the very least, distance yourself.

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