Post # 1
So, I know we all have exes. But, my FI has one who is REALLY crazy.
Like, chased him down the hallway with a knife crazy. She was very emotionally/verbally abusive and honestly, he’s pretty damaged from it and stayed in the relationship for 5 years. There’s a lot more to the story but I’ll spare you the details.
Anyways, after they broke up he blocked her number, he blocked her on facebook .. he just wanted her out of his life.
So, today he was on his facebook and for some reason clicked on the “other” messages – there was a message from HER. From a fake profile she made just for the purpose of messaging him. To “congratulate” him on our engagement. LOL. I just about peed my pants.
Do you or your FI/DH have any sketchy exes?
Post # 2
greenmile12: i have the sketchiest ex ever.
he waited outside my house for me once at 3am after we broke up because i was out late at a party! wtf!? He kept asking to speak to me and when i finally got out he yelled at the top of his lungs what i slut i was.
i blocked him on everything. Got messages from a fake account. Blocked that too. Oops forgot skype – blocked that one. Its been 4 years and i randomly got a message on facebook a few months ago from his old best friend (it was clearly him).
Post # 3
greenmile12: My husband’s ex was being psycho for a while. She somehow found out my name and then started texting him, “So how’s weatherbug?”. She also texted him one night and said that she was coming over because they’re meant to be together and that she was going to tell me that he was cheating on me. He locked the door and went to bed, lol (before we lived together).
She also tried to attend our wedding as the date of a mutual friend. LOL.
Post # 4
greenmile12: You guys definitely have crazier exes than me, but I think my “ex” is pretty crazy. I say “ex” because we never even officially dated… Two years after we “broke up” (his choice)–we remained somewhat friends–he demanded I talk to him about some issue he had with me. I was already engaged and said he could text me and tell me what was on his mind but I didn’t feel comfortable meeting him in person… he flipped out (apparently) and posted on his blog MULTIPLE times about me, set a “deadline” for me in CODE (something I should have remembered from our time together) to contact him. Friends alerted me to the blog but I still didn’t take action because I thought it was ridiculous. Once the deadline was past, he messaged me on Facebook and said he was unfriending me and my FI because we were unable to act like mature adults around him. (Wut?!) He posted a complaint on our wedding day because too many of our friends were sharing pictures from our wedding on Facebook (not our fault), and then just a few days ago, apparently he is still posting on his blog about how much he hates me. -_- I just… can’t.
Post # 5
weatherbug: I can’t believe she tried to attend your wedding!! I’m assuming she didn’t actually come?
Post # 6
weatherbug: LOL OMG. My FI’s ex would definitely try to attend our wedding.
Gah. These poor, poor women (and men).
Post # 8
- Wedding: May 2015 - The Fairmont, SF
My FI had to file a police report against his “not quite ex” (they were never actually dating but were more like FWB) because she went absolutely nuts. She was at his place and she hacked into his computer and started going through everything – including OKCupid messages. When he caught her, she started screaming at him and clawed his neck. She drew blood and he ran to one of the shops he owned in the area. She followed him and started screaming about how he’d hit her (he’d pushed her off to get her to stop digging her nails into his neck) and to call the police, blah blah blah.
The police were called, took one look at my FI’s bleeding wounds, and arrested the girl. He didn’t end up pressing charges but he did decide that he’d never sleep with anyone again unless he could honestly see himself marrying her as a result of the incident.
Post # 9
Oh dear, poor unbalanced people!! Life must be hard when you’re emotionally unstable lol. DH had a (apparently not so) crazy ex who used to drive by our house multiple times when my car wasnt there (they used to live in that house together, and after they’d been broken up for 2 years, I moved in there with him). She’d do funny things like blare the music, drive REALLY slow and all sorts of stuff to get his attention. All while she was engaged to another guy lol… poor guy!
Post # 10
My 2nd year of college I had just gotten the courage to break up with my emotionally abusive ex and I guess I should have alerted my suitemates. I was taking a nap in my dorm and woke up to him sitting in a chair beside my bed just staring at me. Luckily my roommate came in shortly after and told him he needed to leave. Apparantly he just told one of my suitemates that he was my bf and they just let him in!
Post # 11
I’m glad when I broke up with my ex, he was living a state away and didn’t drive. He wrote a diatribe after I started dating my now DH about how he “knew I was cheating on him.” Apparently not wanting him to live in my one bedroom appartment that I had at the time was a sign that I was cheating on him. And then, about 5 months later when a friend of ours finally got the stuff I still had of his back to him, he put a letter in my notebook about how much he missed me and still wanted me back. The worst part was seeing him a month after reading that at a wedding I was attending with my now DH.
Post # 12
whitemochi622: We didnt give him a plus one 🙂
Post # 13
greenmile12: i was once the “crazy ex,” myself. My then long distance boyfriend of three years decided to start dating his new girlfriend before breaking up with me.
Imagine my surprise when I surprised him with a visit, only to meet her at the front door. We hadn’t seen each other in three weeks. He told me how much he missed me just the night before.
Did my boyfriend fess up to the new girl? Nope, he her I was a crazy ex, who couldn’t let go.
I left then and there. Last I heard he was having more drama with other “crazy women.” Yep.
Post # 14
weatherbug: I am so fearful of this everyday! I can see my FI ex doing this.
Post # 15
I had a longtime boyfriend back in high school who was very emotionally abusive (name calling, manipulative, controlling), but I didn’t realize that’s what was happening for quite a while. Once I did, I snapped out of it and broke up with him. He seemed angry, but understood.
Well, the next morning at school, he came and found me where I was kind of hiding out in a classroom before school started (to avoid seeing him) and acted as though nothing had happened. Like there was no breakup. I remember saying, “don’t you remember what happened yesterday?” and he asked what I was talking about.
He followed me around for weeks, sat waiting in my parking spot for me to arrive at school, and would somehow appear outside of my classes before they ended so that he could corner me and scream at me and stuff. He also once punched a wall in front of me and blamed me for his bloody hands.
When I led him to the guidance office so that someone could talk to him, he acted 100% normal and calm, which was scary. He then told me he would wait two years and then expect me to be with him again – thank God he never followed up on that one.
ETA: He still messages me on FB once in a while. I don’t write back.